In my opinion, divorce battles these days can turn into one of the most horribly vindictive ways to get back at your spouse. It mostly turns into an outrageous fight for who will get the most material assets and most importantly... MONEY.
In the past, I would say it was "usual" when husband and wife separate, kids usually stay with mom, when the custody and divorce hearings come around the outcome could become somewhat predictable. In most cases, Mom gets the kids, Dad gets to pay child support and only see the kids on the weekends. Well, boy have times changed!
Think about how much money Dad would have to pay for say... 3 little girls. Especially when Dad initiates the Divorce. Hmmm. I guess Dad needs to find a "better way"or should I say "more financially economic way" to get through this Divorce and WIN CUSTODY OF HIS KIDS. Not to mention -- NO CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENTS!! Think about how lovely that must sound to an underminded person who is paranoid that they will have to pay out of their ass for just about the rest of their lives...
Well, I found a document, while searching on Google called HOW TO SEEK A DIVORCE AND WIN IN ONE EASY STEP. This document actually encourages the reader to file false domestic abuse charges against their spouse to use as leverage in the divorce proceedings. These FALSE allegations are actually a solid blockade for the accused party in a pending divorce/custody battle.
Over the
years, statistics have proven that it is usually a woman who is being abused. If she reports the abuse, her abuser would be arrested for domestic violence, and she is then GIVEN THE DECISION on whether she would like to file a PROTECTION FROM ABUSE (PFA) order.
If a PFA is filed, the accused abuser almost instantaneously:
- Loses possession of or is evicted from the marital home
- Temporarily loses custody of the children for up to twelve months. Custody may be permanently lost for two or more years
- Ordered to pay temporary child support and/or Alimony to the plaintiff
- Is prohibited from entering or coming within 25 feet (most cases) of the plaintiffs' residence, school, family, business, etc.
- Ordered to have no further contact with the plaintiff or her family
- Ordered to pay ALL of the expenses of the plaintiff, such as loss of earnings, attorney's fees, medical bills and/or moving expenses
- Lastly, the accused abuser is restrained from any further abuse
In this document it also states that in an emergency situation, a temporary PFA order will be granted, if the plaintiff or his/her minor children are in immediate danger. Needless to say, emergency orders are awarded so easily that the plaintiff need only to say, "I heard him/her say that she was going to stab me in the back."
With this temporary order in hand the plaintiff is loaded for war. The plaintiff is now about 50% of the way toward total destruction of the wrongly accused.
