Parenthood is one of life’s biggest challenges. For a single parent, the reality is parenting becomes twice as difficult. Nevertheless, being a parent is also a tremendously rewarding experience whether you are a single parent or you have a partner.

While having two parents in the home is ideal and this traditional family setup obviously has advantages over single-parent families, this does not mean that the ability of single parents to raise their child or children successfully is limited. Just because a child is from a broken home does not mean he or she will not grow up to be a responsible and caring person.

While it is certainly not easy, a single parent can raise a strong family. The first step in doing so is acknowledging the responsibilities of being a single parent in such a way that you neither exaggerate nor trivialize your situation. Do away with self-pity, regret and bitterness. Accept the challenges that lay ahead of you with a focus on seeking solutions.

In addition, it is important for you to realize that you do not have to bear everything alone. Certainly, there are people around you with whom you can share the challenges as well as the joys of raising your child. If your family and friends are not nearby, for example, if you are starting life at a new place, you can find help in various single-parent support groups where you will get to know people who are in the same situation as you are and who can offer practical advice about single parenthood.

As a single parent, you probably have a very hectic schedule. You mu

st be at wit’s end trying to balance your work or studies with your home life. Again, let other people you trust help you. It can be as simple as accepting your parent’s offer to watch over your child while you do some errands.

If you find that you and your child are spending too little time because of your job, try to ask your employer whether you can have a more flexible schedule or if you can telecommute or work from home, if that is possible with the nature of your job.

If there is nothing that can be done with your work hours, go over your schedule and set a special time or day just for you and your child to spend together. You can plan for a special trip or just stay at home and play. If even these simple activities have become impossible because of your job, you may want to consider getting a new one.

Those who have succeeded in raising their families as single parents made their children their topmost priority. Many turned down career opportunities because it will take away time for their kids. Such commitment is what your child needs from you. This does not mean, however, that you quit your job and just stay at home because you still need to provide for your family financially. It is just a matter of doing what is best for your child. Always seek options that will allow you to do so.

Setting aside what is now popularly called as “me time” is also important. Many parents feel guilty whenever they do anything just for themselves but keep in mind that your role as a parent is just one aspect of yourself and that you as an individual have needs, too. Give yourself a treat once in a while and take a break to do the things that you love. Be healthy and nourish spirit. When you take care of yourself, you become a happier person and a much better parent.