How To Prepare Your Kids For College


  By Melgrace Abandula

How To Prepare Your Kids For College

Parents may worry about what might lurk for their teen when s/he hits college, what with the freedom and responsibility that come with it. And while you have but every right to exercise parental authority over their college-bound teen, you certainly do not want to come off too much.

No matter how tough it is for parents to let go of their child, they should see college as a great opportunity for their teen to grow as an adult. However, many parents are afraid to let their teen go because they might feel that they have not prepared him/her enough.

There are several steps that parents can do to prepare your teen for college. An important rule here is to keep the communication line open, free and honest. Also, start the conversation early on – not the day before your teen leaves home for college. This way, your child can have a good grasp of what s/he can expect in college and know how to better take charge.

Depression.  Depression might sink in your teen especially during the first year in college, mainly due to homesickness, social challenges and stress. More often, parents may not have an idea that their child is experiencing the problem. The best thing that parents can do is to let their teen know that s/he can talk to you about whatever problem they may have.

Drug and alcohol use. College students are prone to substance or alcohol use due to several factors. Remind them of the risks that come with drug use and alcohol abuse. Firmly stress to your teen your stand and let  him/her that you do not condone the use of drugs and alcohol. If you find that your teen has been experimenting with dr
ugs and or has an alcohol problem, try to be as calm and rational as possible. Try to figure out ways in which you and your child can solve the problem.

Eating habits. Many college students are susceptible to unhealthy eating habits or eating disorders, which can lead to health risks. Constantly check with your teen to know their eating habits. If you suspect eating disorder in your teen, encourage him/her or to get help. Most campuses provide support services to student with this type of problem.

Finances. It is important to teach your college-bound child how to handle their finances wisely. They should also learn how to protect their money as well. Remind your teen the importance of paying their dues on time and spending within their means. You can also suggest that s/he keep photocopies of important contents in his/her wallet.

Safety.  Encourage your child to do things in groups and avoid being alone at night as much as possible. The safety of your child should never be compromised especially that s/he is away from home.

Sex. There is always that possibility for your teen to have sexual relationships at college. However, you should remind him/her that the idea of sexual liberation is imaginary. It is important to talk to your teen about this matter. Children need to hear what you, as a parent, have to say about this issue. Do not just leave the responsibility to the college to educate your child about sex. Even if most colleges provide information and offer  sexual health services, you have a far greater influence on when it comes to your child's sexual behavior.

Your teen can better cope with what college has in store for them by showing full support. Assure them that you are never too far when they need you so you wont have to worry about them.
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laili11

#1 Posted by laili11 - Sep 30, 2008, 1:19 am Rating: ratingfullratingfullratingfullratingfullratingfull Unrated

Good advice given. Going to college is a big step and requires planning ahead.


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